Work, gym, friends, pillow… How do you get
time for your personal life? You can score. And nerves are stronger, and money.
Hush, grace. But boredom, of course, is mortal. If you want a taste of real
life, you have to meet girls. And you can do it by lying at home on the sofa
with a smartphone or a tablet in your hand.
When you register on a dating site, you
need to fill out a profile of truthful information. Leave the profile empty, as
a rule, people who came to the site from boredom and not looking for anything
special there. But a completed profile can tell you more about a person than it
- Requirements to candidates in the column “About yourself”
this is not the best way to please someone. As a rule, relations with the
owners of such profiles do not promise anything good, unless, of course, you do
not want to adjust to these requirements constantly.
- Name. Reducing and caressing forms of the name can talk
about infantile and immature people, nicknames are also rarely used by people
who have come out of adolescence.
- “Swipe to the left.”
Skepticism about their profile on the site, as a rule, show people who
do not have a relationship with the opposite sex. And this isn’t about dating
- “I don’t come here very often.” A person has registered
for a dating service “just in case”, it is unlikely that he is now
really committed to a relationship.
- Keywords. Research of more than 1,2 million questionnaires on
dating services showed that people who mention in their profiles the words:
“love”, “relationship”, “children”,
“time”, “music”, “friend” and “life”,
more often than others find partners for long, serious relationships. Those on the eternal quest are more likely to
use in their profiles the words: “trip”, “dinner”,
“shop”, “meeting”, “humor”.
- Matching interests, of course, will help in finding a topic for
conversation on the first date, but as American psychologists, there is no
pattern in the coincidence of hobbies listed on the sites, and successful acquaintances
in life. Do not mark an interesting candidate just because you have different
interests, perhaps that’s what will attract your attention in communication
with a person.
It turns out that viewing a user’s profile
will help you understand a lot about him. That’s why those who want to find a
partner through a dating site have no problem checking their account before
sending their first message.